{"id":23647,"date":"2025-04-22T14:11:02","date_gmt":"2025-04-22T07:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/thoi-su\/dau-hieu-yeu-sai-nguoi\/"},"modified":"2025-04-22T14:11:02","modified_gmt":"2025-04-22T07:11:02","slug":"dau-hieu-yeu-sai-nguoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/?p=23647","title":{"rendered":"D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u y\u00eau sai ng\u01b0\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"fck_detail \">\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ea1i eHarmony, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 c\u00f3 tr\u1ee5 s\u1edf \u1edf Los Angeles (M\u1ef9), cho r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi \u1edf b\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau sai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">D\u00f9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn n\u00ean l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Khi y\u00eau \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u0103m 2019 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed <em>The Journal of Social Psychology <\/em>ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, b\u1ecf qua c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Thay v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng sau khi g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec7t qu\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">H\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng. Vi\u1ec7c \u1edf b\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ho\u1eb7c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi l\u00fd do.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Tulane (M\u1ef9) cho th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai chung<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean nhau, vi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i l\u00fd do b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u00ean h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u00ecm.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">H\u1ecd th\u00edch ra ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 mu\u1ed9n trong khi b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 d\u1eady s\u1edbm. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t 7 t\u1ed1i trong tu\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i th\u00edch d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. T\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">S\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p trong nhu c\u1ea7u, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u0103m 2017 cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>M\u1ea5t h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1edd \u01a1 khi \u1edf b\u00ean h\u1ecd. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00ec s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 n\u00ean mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui, s\u1ef1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u00e1p, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng. D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb khi \u1edf b\u00ean h\u1ecd ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\"><strong>Th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfm \u0111a s\u1ed1, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\">&#8220;Nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 l\u00fd do v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe. Tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn&#8221;, b\u00e1o c\u00e1o c\u1ee7a eHarmony, n\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal\" style=\"text-align:right;\"><strong>Ng\u1ecdc Ng\u00e2n <\/strong>(Theo <em>Yourtango<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"article-end\"><\/span><\/p>\n<div data-component=\"true\" data-component-type=\"tin_xemthem\" data-component-value=\"4865298,4857027,4871258,4874045\" data-thumb=\"1\"><\/div>\n<p><!-- G\u1eedi g\u00f3p \u00fd b\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 --><br \/>\n<!-- End g\u1eedi g\u00f3p \u00fd b\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 --><br \/>\n<!-- Hope --><br \/>\n<!-- End Hope --><br \/>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ea1i eHarmony, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 c\u00f3 tr\u1ee5 s\u1edf \u1edf Los Angeles (M\u1ef9), cho<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":23648,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAow44a6DA:productID":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[6946],"class_list":["post-23647","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thoi-su","tag-yeu-sai-nguoi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23647","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23647"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23647\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/23648"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23647"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23647"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23647"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}