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D\u00f9 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Ch\u1eafc b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh”, “Ch\u1eafc b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n?” <\/em>ho\u1eb7c <\/em>“B\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?”.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em.<\/p>\n

Khao kh\u00e1t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n do thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 anh ch\u1ecb em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

Rebecca Greene, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9, cho bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em. D\u1ecbp l\u1ec5 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Greene khuy\u1ebfn ngh\u1ecb n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd n\u00ean t\u1ef1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c d\u1ecbp l\u1ec5 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u0169ng gi\u00fap h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 anh ch\u1ecb em.<\/p>\n

Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Rebecca Greene cho th\u1ea5y \u0111a s\u1ed1 con m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0. N\u1ebfu s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111i kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, gi\u00fap n\u1ea5u \u0103n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p s\u1ed1ng xa, g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Chuy\u00ean gia g\u1ee3i \u00fd h\u1ecd n\u00ean t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1eeb qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0, nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1eeb s\u1edbm.<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, tr\u00e1nh \u00e1p l\u1ef1c d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi”, c\u00f4 n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

\u00c1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00fap con m\u1ed9t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd.<\/p>\n

Clark, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i Trung t\u00e2m S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe T\u00e2m th\u1ea7n Springfield (M\u1ef9), cho bi\u1ebft con m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n ho\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3u A, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ea1nh tranh cao, \u0111\u1eb7t ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n kh\u1eaft khe, d\u1ec5 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, g\u00e2y n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u01b0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u00fap con m\u1ed9t b\u1edbt kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/strong><\/p>\n

“\u0110\u00e2y v\u1eeba l\u00e0 \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m”, Priya Tahim, nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp trung t\u00e2m Kaur Counseling<\/em> (M\u1ef9) nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Greene, chuy\u00ean gia ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o t\u1ea1i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Leadership Solutions<\/em>, cho bi\u1ebft con m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd l\u00e0 h\u00e1ch d\u1ecbch ho\u1eb7c th\u00edch \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd h\u1ecd t\u1eadp trung c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c qua giao ti\u1ebfp r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

D\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn<\/strong><\/p>\n

Greene cho bi\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u1ed9t chia s\u1ebb trong c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. \u1ede M\u1ef9, th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 hai \u0111\u1ebfn ba con, n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh con m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb kh\u1eafc h\u1ecda ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c tr\u00ean phim \u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u, \u00edch k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

“C\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con m\u1ed9t, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu anh ch\u1ecb em”, b\u00e0 n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em tham gia c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m Facebook d\u00e0nh cho con m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con m\u1ed9t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean, l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi, nh\u1eadn t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p c\u0169ng gi\u00fap kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 \u0111\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ea7u, con gi\u1eefa hay con m\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n

Ng\u1ecdc Ng\u00e2n<\/strong> (Theo Huffpost<\/em>)<\/p>\n

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D\u00f9 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 “Ch\u1eafc b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh”, “Ch\u1eafc b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n?” ho\u1eb7c “B\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?”. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26048,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAow44a6DA:productID":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[8263,365],"class_list":["post-26047","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thoi-su","tag-con-mot","tag-my"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26047","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26047"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26047\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26048"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26047"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26047"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26047"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}