{"id":30491,"date":"2025-06-12T12:20:12","date_gmt":"2025-06-12T05:20:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/radio-my\/de-hay-khong-do-minh-loi-khang-dinh-cua-nguoi-chong-truong-ho-khi-doi-mat-voi-ap-luc-gia-dinh\/"},"modified":"2025-06-12T12:20:12","modified_gmt":"2025-06-12T05:20:12","slug":"de-hay-khong-do-minh-loi-khang-dinh-cua-nguoi-chong-truong-ho-khi-doi-mat-voi-ap-luc-gia-dinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/?p=30491","title":{"rendered":"‘\u0110\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng do m\u00ecnh’: L\u1eddi kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ‘tr\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd’ khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"
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T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c “l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd” gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c sinh con g\u00e1i. Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng. “Anh n\u00e0y, sau khi b\u00e9 M (b\u00e9 th\u1ee9 hai) l\u1edbn, hay m\u00ecnh sinh th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa nh\u1ec9?”<\/p>\n

“Sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i sinh th\u00eam?”<\/p>\n

“Th\u00ec ai ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n con trai c\u00f3 g\u00e1i, m\u00e0 anh c\u00f2n l\u00e0 con tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eefa.”<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi: “Tr\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1ea3 th\u00ec c\u00f3. Anh mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i ch\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd \u1ea5y l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i. Tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0 \u0111un n\u01b0\u1edbc pha ch\u00e8 cho cha ch\u00fa, c\u1ecd s\u00e2n r\u1eeda b\u00e1t m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean nh\u00e0 t\u1ed5. L\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00fang t\u1ed5, anh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 l\u00e0 con l\u00e0m \u0103n xa, nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m cho m\u00e0 \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng nghe, c\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n anh v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng anh b\u1ea3o lu\u00f4n: ‘\u0110\u1eddi b\u1ed1, b\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft; \u0111\u1eddi con, con quy\u1ebft’. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111u\u1ed5i anh \u0111i lu\u00f4n (h\u00f4m \u0111\u1ea5y con b\u00e9 n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft).<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con trai con g\u00e1i th\u00ec ai ch\u1ea3 mu\u1ed1n, n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 n\u00f3i ph\u00e9t, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebb nh\u01b0 em th\u00ec v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 qu\u00e1. Ai l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 con b\u00e1m m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng cho ai b\u1ebf, r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng \u00f4m con \u0111i vi\u1ec7n 2 l\u1ea7n, tr\u00f4ng l\u1ee7i th\u1ee7i l\u1eafm. N\u1ed9i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f4ng, ngo\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111au \u1ed1m. Th\u00f4i, cho ti\u1ec1n anh c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ebb”.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecfi ch\u1ed3ng th\u00eam: “Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ch\u00e1u trai anh \u1ea1”.<\/p>\n

“\u0110\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng do m\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 ch\u1ea3 tr\u00f4ng gi\u00fap con th\u00ec th\u00f4i, b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ecf h\u1ecfn \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u1edf tr\u1ecd v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 (l\u00fac \u0111\u1ebb th\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 n\u1ed9i \u1edf 4 th\u00e1ng, h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0103n m\u00e0 b\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0a kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 n\u00ean anh gi\u1eadn l\u1eafm, hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecdn t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 ch\u0103m t\u1eeb b\u00e9). \u0110\u1ebfn anh c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u1edf nh\u00e0, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n anh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng mua \u0111\u1ea5t x\u00e2y nh\u00e0 r\u1ed3i ch\u1ee9 n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n cho kh\u1ed5. Ti\u1ec1n \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea m\u00ecnh x\u00e2y nh\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt v\u1ed1n.”<\/p>\n

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R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 tin nh\u1eafn v\u1edbi hai c\u00f4 em ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 ch\u00fang n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp nh\u00f3m r\u1ed3i th\u00eam v\u00e0o, ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eedi ti\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 cho \u00f4ng n\u1ed9i v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111au ch\u00e2n, n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 c\u00f3 xem nh\u01b0ng b\u1eadn n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t nh\u00f3m. T\u00f4i xem th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 anh kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi trong nh\u00f3m, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec3n 3 tri\u1ec7u th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c chuy\u1ec7n con c\u00e1i (l\u00fac c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec ng\u1ecdt nh\u1ea1t l\u1eafm), th\u00ec anh h\u1ecfi sao kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3i g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t anh. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 anh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i. R\u1ed3i anh b\u1ea3o s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u00e0 cho r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Anh t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ebb b\u00e9 th\u1ee9 hai, c\u0169ng b\u1ecb tr\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 anh b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 anh mu\u1ed1n d\u1ed3n ti\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 n\u1ee3. N\u1ebfu c\u00e0y cu\u1ed1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd ra l\u00e0m ri\u00eang, v\u00ec hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i anh v\u1eabn l\u00e0m h\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty, t\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 anh t\u1ef1 thu\u00ea x\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0m, m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng c\u0169ng th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 8-10 tri\u1ec7u. Ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0y h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng anh tr\u1ea3 n\u1ee3 (n\u1ee3 600 tri\u1ec7u ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng), c\u00f2n l\u01b0\u01a1ng hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 chi ti\u00eau.<\/p>\n

May l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i anh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 hai b\u00e9 con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee7 cha \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

\u00c0, c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111ang n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n m\u00e0 k\u00eau nh\u1ee1 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, th\u00ec t\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac \u0111i si\u00eau \u00e2m l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00f3i v\u00f2ng b\u1ecb l\u1ec7ch v\u1ecb tr\u00ed, tu\u1ed9t 1\/3 r\u1ed3i n\u00ean m\u1edbi d\u00ednh. B\u00e9 b\u1ecb b\u00f3c t\u00e1ch t\u1ee5 d\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn tu\u1ea7n 14 (b\u00f3c t\u00e1ch t\u00fai thai – hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 m\u00e1u t\u1ee5 quanh t\u00fai thai, x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u00e1nh nhau thai b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi ni\u00eam m\u1ea1c t\u1eed cung thay v\u00ec g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u00e0o nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng – BTV<\/i>). Con \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, d\u00f9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n b\u00e9 v\u1eabn b\u00ecnh an \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i, n\u00ean l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u \u1ea1. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 an \u1ee7i t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eedi con v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i ph\u01b0\u1ee3t, em d\u00e2u b\u1ee9c x\u00fac l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng tr\u00fat n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ngNgh\u0129 \u0111i ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng nu\u1ed1t n\u1ed5i c\u1ee5c t\u1ee9c n\u00e0y n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e2n x\u1eed gi\u00fap. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0m d\u00e2u m\u00e0 g\u1eb7p c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n
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T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c “l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd” gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c sinh con g\u00e1i. Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng. “Anh n\u00e0y, sau khi b\u00e9 M (b\u00e9 th\u1ee9 hai) l\u1edbn, hay m\u00ecnh sinh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":30492,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAow44a6DA:productID":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8425],"tags":[9870,11442],"class_list":["post-30491","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-radio-my","tag-nguoi-chong","tag-truong-ho"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30491","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=30491"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30491\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/30492"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=30491"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=30491"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=30491"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}