{"id":34935,"date":"2025-06-17T19:14:51","date_gmt":"2025-06-17T12:14:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/radio-my\/chong-ngoai-tinh-va-loi-nhan-nhu-sau-cay-cua-chinh-that-voi-em-gai-tra-xanh\/"},"modified":"2025-06-17T19:14:51","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T12:14:51","slug":"chong-ngoai-tinh-va-loi-nhan-nhu-sau-cay-cua-chinh-that-voi-em-gai-tra-xanh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/?p=34935","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 s\u00e2u cay c\u1ee7a ‘ch\u00ednh th\u1ea5t’ v\u1edbi ’em g\u00e1i tr\u00e0 xanh’"},"content":{"rendered":"
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H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “em g\u00e1i tr\u00e0 xanh” \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty anh \u1ea5y. K\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh, t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh qua l\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. “Em g\u00e1i tr\u00e0 xanh” \u1ea5y ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng “b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n xanh” tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c em ngh\u0129 sao, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u00edch th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh, \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1c em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng, h\u1ea3 h\u00ea khi l\u00e0m v\u1eady? Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh khen ng\u1ee3i, t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh, m\u1eddi m\u1ecdc, k\u00e8m theo nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u00ea bai v\u1ee3 h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng: “V\u1ee3 anh kh\u00f4ng xinh”, “V\u1ee3 anh kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m anh b\u1eb1ng em”, “Anh s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 v\u00ec ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau”?<\/p>\n

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Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c em l\u00e0m, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, c\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kia m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c em? C\u00e1c em c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ch\u00ea v\u1ee3, r\u1ed3i k\u00eau h\u1ebft t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n chung c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ec7n minh cho h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Khi n\u1ed7i \u0111au ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t n\u1ed7i \u0111au<\/strong><\/h3>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra tin nh\u1eafn gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 “em g\u00e1i tr\u00e0 xanh” n\u00e0y t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang mang b\u1ea7u. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u1ed1m ngh\u00e9n n\u1eb7ng, r\u1ed3i con c\u0169ng b\u1ecb s\u1ea3y, n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Khi \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ch\u1ed3ng v\u00ec su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh mang thai, m\u1ea5t con, anh \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i kh\u00e1m thai c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i. Anh \u1ea5y v\u00f4 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 th\u00eam v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u1eafn tin, quan t\u00e2m, t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh nhau sau l\u01b0ng t\u00f4i. H\u00f3a ra, n\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c em g\u00e1i \u1ea1, c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 nhan s\u1eafc, c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng r\u1ed3i sau n\u00e0y, khi c\u00e1c em c\u0169ng l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, mang b\u1ea7u, sinh con, c\u00e1c em c\u0169ng s\u1ebd x\u1ea5u \u0111i, v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e1c em c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eafn tin quan t\u00e2m, t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n? L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c em s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Li\u1ec7u c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi lu\u1eadt nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m sai tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb nh\u1eafn tin \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y, t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh c\u00e1c em l\u00e0 do ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn sai ch\u1ed3ng. Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c em ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eafn tin th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh, r\u1ee7 c\u00e0 ph\u00ea, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c em ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang hay sai? L\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p c\u00e1c em l\u00e0m v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 ph\u00e1t sinh quan h\u1ec7 sau \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eafn tin, \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3, c\u00e1c em \u0111\u00e3 sai r\u1ed3i.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Sau nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eadt gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c vui ch\u1edbp nho\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khinh mi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nghi\u1ec7p qu\u1ea3 theo sau?<\/p>\n

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Ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u1ee9 ‘kh\u00f4ng x\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecbt’ nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i l\u1eddi ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0oT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0o tay th\u1ee9 “kh\u00f4ng x\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecbt” nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i l\u1eddi ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00e1u g\u1eaft.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/article>\n

Theo Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “em g\u00e1i tr\u00e0 xanh” \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty anh \u1ea5y. K\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh, t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh qua l\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. “Em g\u00e1i tr\u00e0 xanh” \u1ea5y ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng “b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n xanh”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":34936,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAow44a6DA:productID":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8425],"tags":[15206,569],"class_list":["post-34935","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-radio-my","tag-chong-ngoai-tinh","tag-ngoai-tinh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34935","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=34935"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34935\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/34936"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=34935"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=34935"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quanghung.name.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=34935"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}